Components Of Being In A Relationship

I believe that being in a relationship consists of these things:

• Love
• Trust
• Communication

I'm going to start off with Love.. as I grew older, I learned the true definition of Love.

Love is not loosing that passion for one another regardless of the time years you both have been together. Love is showing and giving respect to each other as much as you guys can. Love is setting boundaries and limits where the relationship is respected and if one lets another disrespect the relationship, then they are not really showing respect to their loved. Love is word that you give meaning behind it so why not still show it even when the person you love already knows you love them.

Trust!!! You can't really love somebody without trusting them. If you have no trust on them,  you better believe there is going to be a lot of unnecessary arguments.

It takes years to build trust and a second to loose that trust, so therefore, for me, if a person I'm with tells me they trust me with all their heart, then it means more to me for them to tell me that they trust me rather than telling me that they love me.. i say this because trust is more valuable to me because you can have it today and be gone tomorrow.

Last but not least is communication. Communication is really important because in a argument, you need to speak as well as to listen. One person cannot be doing all the times, one person cannot be doing the calls all the time, and one person cannot make be the one making the effort to see one another..if that's the case then why not call or text or see a brick wall?? That is basically what one person is doing if they are going all the effort to communicate. You need 2 individuals to communicate.

If you are not married, and somebody is not willing to meet these components with you..then why be in a relationship with them…you would be better be off alone.